So when it comes to anything I need to do I am always doing a checklist, I can make a list of things I need to do or things I cant forget and once they are done I can tick them off. So why not do it for a wedding?

Your son or daughter has just got engaged, emotions are everywhere and there is so much to process. Why not go out and buy yourself a notebook so you can write everything down as and when it comes to you. For example –

1. Shopping for an outfit
2.  Hair trial
3. Make up trial
4. Booking any pets into kennels
5. Outings with the bride etc

Then once they are done you can tick them off or expand on it and it can really help you feel like you are in control and on top of it all.